When it comes to thinking about how to best care for the aging population, we must also take into consideration the issues that their caretakers deal with and how to best support their needs as well. Sandwich generation caregivers have been on the rise over the past 2 decades and its about time that we give them some more attention and resources to deal with the challenges that come with this dual role lifestyle.
According to an article from the Huffington Post, about 1 in 7 middle-aged adults provides financial care to both their children as well as their aging parents (Dolgen, 25 July 2013). Dolgen states that this is not all that surprising considering the following: "While young workers are buried with
student loan debt and low wages, the elderly face dual challenges in
record-high life expectancy rates and declining retirement savings" (25 July 2013). And on top of this, roughly 40% of middle-aged adults report that both their grown children and aging parents rely on them for emotional support (Dolgen, 25 July 2013). Having to be the emotional and financial rock of the family can be a huge burden and creates a lot of added stress for these caregivers. It is important that this particular population doesn't experience burn-out because they are some of the front lines in caring for the older adults. That's why it is so important for us as social workers and clinicians to understand the issues and stressors for sandwich generation caregivers so we can give them the proper resources and support they need to care for the older adults in their lives.
Here are a couple of graphs that help give visualization to some of the statistics of the Sandwich Generation.
For more information regarding the general profile of sandwich generation caretakers, take a look at
this article:
http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/01/30/the-sandwich-generation/
July is Sandwich Generation Month, so this is a perfect time to be doing a post on this particular subject. I came across another blog on aplaceformom.com where there was a post on "Honoring Caregivers" as a result of it being Sandwich Generation Month. The blogger, Stevenson, posted a few tips on how to ease caregiver burden that I wanted to share on here:
Tips to Ease the Caregiving Burden
Financially and emotionally, being a Sandwich Generation caregiver
can be a source of strain, despite the intangible rewards. So what can
caregivers do to manage their time, relationships and budget? Here are a
few tips from the experts:
1. Hold family meetings.
Caregiving doesn’t have to be a one-person show.
Today’s Caregiver
magazine suggests splitting up the task list each week so everyone is
clear on expectations and what needs to be accomplished. Setting
an action plan for the future can really help, too, says
Kiplinger.com — especially if there are prospective financial challenges to manage, such as selling an elderly parent’s house.
2. Ask for professional assistance.
Resources such as a local social worker, the Area Agency on Aging, or the U.S. Health and Human Services website,
LongTermCare.gov,
can help you figure out the logistics of caring for children and senior
parents at the same time. Similarly, Kiplinger suggests getting in
touch with a financial planner or accountant to figure out the realities
of your budget. Doing this ahead of time, if you anticipate needing to
care for elderly parents, can help fend off monetary difficulties down
the road.
3. Plan ahead with your kids.
The Kiplinger website suggests getting children into the savings habit early. For adult children, they should make sure to
contribute to a retirement plan,
even if they are still relying on some support from you. When kids have
to move back home, it can be difficult to think about charging them
rent, but setting financial boundaries is key to managing a
multigenerational household budget. Of course, an emergency is a
different story, but if your children need long-term support, it’s time
for another family meeting!
4. Don’t forget to care for yourself.
Caring for the caregiver is critical — staying healthy, eating right
and getting enough rest means you’ll be in tip-top shape to care for
your loved ones at home. But don’t be afraid to slow down, either, if
your body is clamoring for a break. See a health care professional or
look into
a few days of respite care to enable yourself to recuperate.
References
Dolgen, E. (25 July 2013).
The Sandwich Generation: Caring for Children and Parents. Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ellen-sarver-dolgen/the-sandwich-generation_b_3636774.html
Parker, K & Patten, E. (30 January 2013).
The Sandwich Generation: Rising Financial Burdens for Middle-Aged Americans. Retrieved from http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/01/30/the-sandwich-generation/
Stevenson, S. (1 July 2014).
Honoring Caregivers: July is Sandwich Generation Month. Retrieved from http://www.aplaceformom.com/blog/2013-07-02-honoring-caregivers-sandwich-generation-month/